I am in love at last. But am i really in love. I'm with this girl who says she loves me and i say i love her, but is that really the case is she in love with me and do i hate her. Thats the real question! i tell her i love her and i tell her that i really love her, im os confused am i in love or not? I guess what i am feeling is what they call a paradox which is that im in love with her but at the same time i hate her. So the next question i ask myself is do i hate loving you, or i do i love hating you?